Start
a Business And Become The Master of Your Fate
To
me and to many of you, the advantages of working for yourself, far
outweigh the disadvantages both in number and magnitude.
From
woodcarving to CEOing a chain of retail stores, from owning an art
gallery to renting a State Fair booth, from t-shirt design to Web
design, from professional writing, to business consulting; in the
last twenty some odd years of self employment, I have done all these
things and more.
I
have been wealthy and I have been bankrupt. I have been on top of
the world and I have shivered in terror. But through all these years,
one thing remained firmly in my
Invictus
Out
of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.
William Ernest Henley. 1849–1903
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mind,
that this absence of alarm clocks and butt kissing was the only
life I could ever live.
In
the first part of my life I had several jobs, which many people
would envy.. but they were still "jobs", positions in
which I had to earn the continued approval of others, while they
earned the continued profits from my efforts.
I knew that the inevitability for me, was the depletion of my personal
resources with limited return, much anxiety and no chance of ever
reaching the brass ring. I needed out. I made the break and never
looked back.
Working
for yourself is not easy. In the early days, I often worked sixteen
hour days on my business, just to avoid suffering the eight, slaving
for someone else. I had to make sacrifices to maintain the freedom
I now enjoy and the autonomy I cannot live without. I've since learned
how to streamline and better manage my time. These are some of the
tips I'll pass on to you through this Site and the wisdom of others..
This
morning my daughter (parenthood came late for me) wanted to know
why we couldn't spend the day at the beach. I told her honestly,
that it's because I had just spent two days volunteering at her
school and another helping with her science project, plus hours
chauffeuring her to dance lessons, tennis lesson and piano lessons
and now had to spend some time feeding my business.
What
she's too young to understand is that I'm able to do these things
for her, am able to be the only father on the School Advisory Counsel,
and the all-knowing homework helper because I've created a world
where I make the schedule, where I determine my priorities, where
I make the decisions.
Whether
marathon working, or super-parenting, the choices are always mine.
The decisions are always mine. The consequences are always mine.
And the rewards are mine as well. This is who I am. And I love my
life.
If
this is your life, or the life you'd like to have, you've come to
the right place. The articles and ads on this Site are all designed
to enable you to attain that freedom you crave and to be truly be
the Master of Your Fate.
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